Secrets - Learn To Love Lyrics






You're dodging each reflection
Mirrors haunt your soul, shake your bones
I think you're missing something darling leave that hole it's not your home
Of all the troubles that you worry over leave those thoughts alone

You keep losing grip on what you love
You hold tight, but it's never tight enough
You're losing everything
You'll earn the love you want when you learn to love yourself
You keep losing sight of what went wrong
It plays back, but the visions left you lost
You're losing everything
You'll earn the love you want when you learn to love yourself
Forgive me father
For I have sinned
I met the devil on my shoulder
Then I let him in
When no one could save me
He said he'd defend me
And with no sign from above
Could you fucking blame me
I’m fighting myself
I’m going crazy again
I’m just so damn tired of your voice in my head
Slow down, slow down
This world will make you think it's all about what you see

You keep losing grip on what you love
You hold tight, but it's never tight enough
You're losing everything
You'll earn the love you want when you learn to love yourself
You keep losing sight of what went wrong
It plays back, but the visions left you lost
You're losing everything
You'll earn the love you want when you learn to love yourself

I wonder how long that you can go on believing you're a stranger
That you'll never belong in your own skin
I'm here to tell you you're far from nothing

You keep losing grip on what you love
You hold tight, but it's never tight enough
You're losing everything
You'll earn the love you want when you learn to love yourself
You keep losing sight of what went wrong
It plays back, but the visions left you lost
You're losing everything
You'll earn the love you want when you learn to love yourself





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  1. �.... ....

    This song describes my life lately

  2. l.... ....

    This band never fails to surprise me. I think the first time i heard them was 2012, and they're consistently good from then on...

  3. f.... ....

    Almost 100K!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  4. l.... ....

    this song is my life

  5. l.... ....

    I love the message this song sends out <3 Learning to accept yourself and loving yourself exactly the way you are is so so important

    l.... ....

    Well if you put it that way then I think loving yourself and believing in yourself are also important parts of learning to survive

  6. A.... G....

    Richard sounds amazing when he says "slow down... slow down"

  7. M.... ....

    Been Listening to these guys since day 1. If you like Secrets, check out my bands first single, Breaking Infinity By (me) Ignite the Riot

  8. m.... s....

    Not as good as fragile figures but this band still kicks ass , this album is there second best behind fragile figures , but they really need to keep a consistent lineup

  9. T.... G....

    How can people scream like that, wouldn't their throats hurt XD

    T.... G....

    No they use false vocals. I may not be completely right but the sound comes from within their diaphragm not their lungs. Which in turn places less stress on the throat. But extended sessions can indeed still lead to voice loss.

    T.... G....

    @jon gut Ah

  10. K.... K....

    This song means so much to me. I can literally translate the stanzas into my actual thoughts:

    First Stanza: I'm hiding from myself, yet everywhere I turn I'm there, and I'm terrified because there's no escape from myself. I don't have this little piece of me that I had before that prevented me from believing that I belong in the dark, secluded from everyone else. I'm also a worrier - chronic worrier. I'm always obsessing over my worries and it's time I relaxed.
    Rest of the song: I've lost all my passions. I try so hard to do them at the level I did before, but no matter how hard I try, it's never satisfactory. I'm beginning to lose myself and what I stand for. All I want is validation and care, but I can't even validate and care for myself. I don't even remember exactly how I got to being like this, yet I remember a few nit picks - though, all they do is leave me lost and asking more questions. I gave up any hope I had and decided to stay like this, and now I'm stuck. I gave up everything to live in a false sense of comfort, and now I can't get out. No one realized what was going on - so I thought it was okay, even though I knew I wasn't okay at all. I'm tired of that little voice in my mind telling me to get up because all I can do is sit back down and fall to the floor. I'm an observer as well - and along with that, I'm surrounded by people who even further invalidate me, forcing me to believe that whatever I'm feeling is wrong - but in a bad way. That's it's not real. I believe myself to be a lone wolf - just away from everyone else. I'm transgender - I literally don't belong in this body, let alone this mind. I also believe myself to be nothing.

    So, yeah. :/

  11. K.... ....

    First time listening to this band and they're great c:

  12. Z.... C....

    could you fucking blame me?

  13. S.... T....

    Amazing Song! but my only thing is you very well coulda kept it clean. those 2 words doesnt add to the song at all

  14. L.... T....

    Rise Records sure made a good investment by signing Secrets :)

  15. L.... S....

    RiseRecords ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

  16. A.... V....

    Just unreal song <3

  17. I.... e....

    I can tell this album will grow on me, definitely prefer their older stuff though but this is different in a good way.

  18. g.... ....

    So far I'm very happy I preordered this.

  19. R.... ....

    good song!

  20. C.... M....

    stop complaining about the album, and songs. this is how they wanted to produce the album of their lives. artists change their styles of music everyday, look at bring me the horizon, they're more poppy but they still have the same meaning in their songs. support a band you love, accept their changes and just listen and love the album!

    C.... M....

    or people can have their opinions. If someone is saying they don't like the sound they have the right to. If majority doesn't like it then it could be a hint to the band to do better next time. I personally liked fragile figures a lot and I don't feel like this is as strong. for me the only real positive are the choruses. No interesting instrumentals, and the new unclean vocalist sounds like every other vocalist. Idk. Just not my, or a lot of other people's cup of tea. Get over yourself.

    C.... M....

    This argument never made any sense to me. To be clear, I don't mind the sound of this album at all, so I'm not speaking directly in relation to Secrets or any other band in particular. I don't know about you, but I like bands because of the music they make...that's the entire point of a band. If I didn't care what the music sounded like, I'd just be saying "I like this random group of dudes for no reason." People get upset when bands change their musical style because the music is what got them into the band in the first place, they didn't become fans of the band by seeing pictures of the members or something. Call me crazy, but I'd prefer if bands kept a similar sound in all their albums, because that style is why I started liking them. If they change their music, don't get upset when people voice their changed opinions as well.

  21. M.... v....

    I like how in the comments it's the same people praising/defending them and the same people hating/complaining about them over and over again

  22. S.... A....

    Wade as the new vocalist is just making this album so god damn amazing

    S.... A....

    Not that he is bad. But Aaron wouldve made this album even better.

  23. G.... M....

    this song reminds me of A Day To Remember

    G.... M....

    +GusMOfficialChannel Yeah, a lot like the new A Day To Remember

    G.... M....

    @Leonardo H thanks for agreeing, I though I was the only one ahah

    G.... M....

    SECRETS does have ADTR old producer

    G.... M....

    also the chorus from this song sounds simillar to the ending of 'sometimes you're the hammer sometimes you're the nail' by ADTR, both melody and lyrics :P

  24. E.... O....

    i wish they kept the sound the same as fragile figures

    E.... O....

    And if they did stay with that sound you'd bitch about it being the same record over again.

    E.... O....

    +Cuminder Sheprd I think what he's saying is that he wishes the sound was as good as fragile figures. personally I feel like this is a step back

    E.... O....

    thanks for understanding. If he would have actually took the time to comprehend my comment then he would understand what I meant. 

    E.... O....

    +swiftflame tv It had nothing to do with his lack of comprehension; you literally said "i wish they kept the sound the same as fragile figures". There's really only one way to interpret that, and if you meant something else by it; that's your own fault.

    E.... O....

    It's a different sound because Aaron is no longer a vocalist. in my opinion they sounded the best with him as a vocalist. wade isn't bad but I just think Aaron made the band sound more solid.

  25. t.... w....

    this is my favorite christian band ...so djent! dem breakdowns dough.

    t.... w....

    +tjisatotalsellout TDWP doesn't drop F bombs in their songs....

    t.... w....

    +Nicholas Krajewski TDWP has never dropped an fbomb in any of there songs I would know because they're tied for my favorite band and I've read and re-read all of their lyrics a thousand times, stop spreading ignorant rumors

    t.... w....

    +Nicholas Krajewski lol my bad dude

    t.... w....

    +Nicholas Krajewski If you based the number of Christians off of who doesn't curse, it would drop dramatically. There's not a single Christian that follows everything they're supposed to, so I don't see how cursing would affect whether or not someone is a Christian; not to mention no one is in a position to say otherwise.

    t.... w....

    Lol and this all started from a troll

  26. D.... ....

    Yup, as I suspected... gay.

    D.... ....

    this is true.

    D.... ....

    their last album was way better

    D.... ....

    +Duff Man there👏is👏noth ing👏wrong👏with👏being👏gay👏

  27. G.... l....

    dam!!
    this song its very good!

  28. p.... ....

    Awesome album guys!

  29. A.... M....

    Clean singer is carrying this band, and it's not enough. Very, very boring album.

    A.... M....

    I kind of agree. The last album was way better. I don't care about the whole "generic" thing because good music is good music. Don't get me wrong, the album is good, but it just doesn't hold the title like Fragile Figures.

    A.... M....

    +Alex McGinnis-Yates Exactly how I feel, it's just so boring. It's the same Secrets formula with a load more singing but there's just something missing.

    A.... M....

    +NickDixon Fantastic observation, it is indeed, and i expressed it. On the internet.

    A.... M....

    +hnjgman right?

    A.... M....

    Well when people think of this genre they think of a guy doing constant screams which "carries" the band. It's not like the music lost meaning or that they just flat out took out the unclean vocal they changed slowly over each album into what they are now it just a matter of catching on to that.

  30. e.... ....

    It is impossible to love your self. When you really truly understand what the meaning of love is, you will never again use the phrase "Love yourself". Love has nothing to do with ego; what can you take, selfishness, narcism. Love is exclusively for other; what can you give, how can you help. We need to stop telling people they need to love themselves this is a really big problem with our society. At best you can learn to accept yourself; be happy with yourself, content. Most people seem to think the definition of love is some extreme version of the word "like"- which is just keeping them stuck in the mind space of ego and self service.

    e.... ....

    +Kjl1324 Love doesn't require ego. When you love someone, your needs and wants are completely absent because its not about what you can get out of the situation its about what you can give. It just doesn't have anything to do with the self/ego.

    e.... ....

    It's just a fucking song, shut the fuck up.

    e.... ....

    +Richard Rogers You're right. Though the term love yourself is illogical, and I'll always point it out because people need to come to the realization that love isn't about what you can take/ego/self. The realization of how beautiful you are is through acceptance and courage- the only way to get over any fear or ego is courage. Not letting anyone in is coming from fear and ego (opposite of love). Adding more ego to the pile is counterproductive, letting go of the ego is more to the point of love. We are to lose the fear of what others think of us, the fear of loss, fear of being disrespected, the fear of something new that counteracts your beliefs. Sorry if I sound preachy or ranting in any way, but this information is literally the most important information in the world. I can't sit by and watch people misuse it by saying love yourself, its telling that they don't know what love is and its important to correct it. We're not here for ourselves, ego, horde everything and F everyone else- that's not how we get on as a society. But through love and helping others, giving, evolving for the better. If the meaning of love had anything to do with self/ego, then you'd be the only person in existence.

    e.... ....

    +metalfreak1423 the meaning of love is proven through logic, as sure as math, I didn't make it up, it has nothing to do with faith. The term "love yourself" is illogical, and more like a thrown together hippy term with no real understanding of love. I'll try to help you understand one more time, please don't just brush this off because the more people who understand the better, and you'll be armed with the explanation to help others understand. I'm trying to simplify what physicist Tom Campbell proves through hours and hours of lecture. There are 2 opposing emotions in existence, Love and Fear- not something I'm making up, really think about it, look it up, its proven. Fear Requires Ego. You can't have a fear of loss, a fear of what other people think of you, a fear of anything- without Ego (I, me, first person). Its basically putting yourself over others to experience a fear emotion. The opposite side of the spectrum, Love, therefore requires no Ego. The most basic way of saying it is Love is selflessness, Fear is selfishness. Example: A mother's love is selfless, the mother doesn't require self love(which is impossible) to take care and love her child, its ridiculous and makes no logical sense to say that she needs to love herself first before loving her child.

    e.... ....

    ez4me14 why cant you just accept what is valuable to someone else???? Dont judge someone by how they feel until you step into their shoes, it makes you look ignorant and uneducated.

  31. S.... C....

    legal 🎧

    S.... C....

    +Rafał Leśniak omfg, my English is very bad

    S.... C....

    +Stefanie Calixto BR

    S.... C....

    +Khalid Mohammad só podia ser XD

    S.... C....

    +Stefanie Calixto achei vcs

    S.... C....

    +Rojão♪ʘ‿ʘ♪

  32. J.... L....

    got spammed again

  33. E.... G....

    First time hearing of this band and I like it! Good music

  34. R.... G....

    I love you Secrets!

  35. F.... m....

    Acutely the new album is surprisingly good

  36. �.... �....

    this chorus got me trippin

  37. A.... ....

    Might as well call this band Chorus.

    A.... ....

    +Jason LovesABR So is Ebola...

    A.... ....

    +ADTR513
    Right? Seriously there was maybe 45 seconds of song other than the chorus.