R.E.M. - Bang And Blame Lyrics






If you could see yourself now, baby,
It's not my fault, you used to be so in control.
You're going to roll right over this one.
Just roll me over, let me go,
You're laying blame.
Take this as no, no, no, no, no.

You bang, bang, bang, bang, bang,
Then blame, blame, blame,
You bang, bang, bang, bang, bang,
It's not my thing so let it go.

If you could see yourself now, baby,
The tables have turned, the whole world hinges on your swings,
Your secret life of indiscreet discretions.
I'd turn the screw and leave the screen,
Don't point your finger,
You know that's not my thing.

You came to bang, bang, bang, bang, bang,
To blame, blame, blame,
Bang, bang, bang, bang, bang,
It's not my thing so let it go now.

You've got a little worry,
I know it all too well.
I've got your number --
But so does every kiss and tell
Who dares to cross your threshold,
Or happens on you way,
Stop laying blame.
You know that's not my thing.

You know that's not my thing, you came to bang, bang, bang, bang, bang,
Then blame, blame, blame.
Bang, bang, bang, bang, bang,
It's not my thing so let it go, you
Bang, bang, bang, bang, bang,
Then blame, blame, blame.
It's not my thing so let it go.

You kiss on me,
Tug on me,
Rub on me,
Jump on me.
You bang on me,
Beat on me,
Hit on me,
Let go on me.
You let go on me.





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  1. m.... A....

    thank you Rem

  2. m.... A....

    I liked it very good for dance congratulations

  3. s.... l....

    1995....

  4. j.... g....

    Great song by one of the greatest rock band ever.
    Miss you guys, thanks for all

  5. L.... C....

    "The best band ever ! "

  6. D.... S....

    the collest bass line ever.

    D.... S....

    I've been revisiting REM songs lately really digging the bass playing

  7. F.... F....

    Para siempre

  8. U.... ....

    do they have a bad song?

  9. C.... M....

    I heard this song and maybe Crush with Eyeliner were both inspired my his relationship with Courtney Love from the group Hole

  10. R.... d....

    Today are 372 idiots. 17/11/2019

  11. J.... P....

    What an amazing tune.. extremely underrated

  12. K.... C....

    Love it!

  13. J.... J....

    Mike, Michael and the guys deserve every Fing penny they have, they grinded it out in the early days. I know personally. The Monster record was kinda Pete”s return to glory. His electric guitar is splashed all over the record... the reverb on Crushed by Eyeliner is fantastic

  14. J.... J....

    Seeing this in 2019 sends chills down my spine! In a GOOD WAY! Saw Michael and the boys play a “ $3.00 budget concert in 1983. in Chicago!

  15. A.... V....

    pete's got some incredible mutton chops going on during this time frame. love it!

  16. J.... D....

    From all other songs stipe could have dedicated river, why this one? whats the point stipe, for real.. this song? come on

  17. A.... �....

    Verse is “Losing my religion”.

  18. T.... T....

    Fuckers wont let me play the mike tyson toad remix by the campfire, bastards

  19. S.... K....

    Great songs that came in the wrong time when shallow,plastic,fake people killed the real music and made bad taste a life style wich made them outrageously rich and famous but so poor when it comes to talent or humanity.The new gurus of slave to money and fame populace!

  20. S.... K....

    Great songs that came in the wrong time when shallow,plastic,fake people killed the real music and made bad taste a life style wich made them outrageously rich and famous but so poor when it comes to talent or humanity.The new gurus of slave to money and fame populace!

  21. H.... ....

    Tool of the eighties.

  22. M.... S....

    Somewhere in the 1990's when I first saw this video, it literally put me in a trance. It blew me away. I love the song, but the video, in particular, mesmerized me for years.

  23. K.... E....

    It seems the radio has forgotten about R.E.M. What a shame. Still my favorite band EVER.

    K.... E....

    You have good taste.

  24. 6.... ....

    25th anniversary vinyl ordered today

  25. A.... S....

    this song is fantastic

  26. R.... ....

    Wow! I don't believe that I've heard this since 1994, it's 2019 now.

  27. D.... G....

    Good song!!!!

  28. t.... ....

    I wish they did a few more albums under the I.R.S. Label

  29. C.... B....

    25 years ago - I was not born then, WOW

  30. B.... S....

    Love this ...reminds me why I got divorced ....

  31. T.... H....

    This is all about River phoenix

  32. G.... L....

    amazing song, it still hurts in 2019

  33. f.... ....

    Monster is REM at their best ever...their peak. NO discussion

    f.... ....

    Automatic to Hi-Fi was such a brilliant era for R.E.M. Easily their best,

  34. L.... P....

    I seen these guys live & they were brilliant.

  35. F.... K....

    we had a no flat screen and watched Parallell on videorecorder

  36. e.... ....

    Monster is such a great album. I'm glad it's getting more love over the years because when it came out people were very critical of it. My favorite r.e.m. albums are automatic for the people, monster, and adventures in hi-fi. They took risks on those album without losing their voice. When my band opened a R.e.m. tribute show we had to choose from a list of songs (the headline got first pick) and this song wasn't taken. Hell it wasn't even on the list! So we opened the show with this song and the crowd LOVED it!

  37. G.... P....

    E vamos achando pedaços de memória soltos por aí...

    Reminds me MTV Brasil!

  38. S.... ....

    I need that f***ing shirt. Too bad I'm not that slim

  39. R.... J....

    What a master piece, a song is not getting older and unknown by the crowd, only for people with good taste of music

  40. T.... S....

    Saw REM at Alpine Valley 1988, again in 95 in Chicago.For me Beatles and REM.

  41. 9.... ....

    Anyone else here get high while listening to this song?

  42. F.... A....

    "Let me go, take this as No" #VERYAQUARIUS love style ♒👍😉

  43. L.... K....

    This song makes me mad, in a good way. For myself, and the abuse I put up with from my bf many many years ago, but stuffed down and blocked out. This was me back then.

  44. Z.... D....

    This song has a lot of meaning. I came out over 30 years ago and my closeted girlfriends were particularly cruel

  45. S.... W....

    Love that guitar with delay on the verse sooo much👍

  46. D.... M....

    One of all time favorite songs.

  47. b.... 3....

    Is it only me, or does this song have sort of a sexy vibe to it?

  48. K.... M....

    I remember growing up listening to REM. I liked their songs. But nothing touched me the way that "Monster" did. The first time I saw the video for "Bang and Blame," it floored me. They had my complete attention. It was so emotionally complex. It tapped into feelings that I didn't know how to express, and maybe still don't. It's really hard to admit that I always worry that I'll end up being one of my parents- I'll either be the banger or the blamer. That fear is kind of crippling. I don't feel like I can have any serious relationships because it's too risky. This song (and the amazing video) felt like the first and only time anyone understood that feeling. It's still a personal favorite.

  49. C.... ....

    Summer of 94 takes me back

  50. F.... F....

    Masterpiece. One of their best masterpieces.

  51. C.... K....

    Love the bass. Brings me back to 1993.. Best decision I ever made.. details another time

    C.... K....

    I'm waiting on details

  52. J.... D....

    Still great music from Athens finest

  53. V.... F....

    A great Song of a great band

  54. R.... ....

    Im not leavin until rachel moore is free YES ICE CREAM. YES PEACE #danacrieslol

  55. D.... ....

    Somehow brings me back to the cool confidence that especially this video and song conveyed at that time (=age 14)

  56. S.... A....

    One of those songs you hear in your youth, that just becomes more apt and relevant with every decade that goes by. Relationships are wearing, abusive, exhausting and vampiric. You kiss on me, tug on me, rub on me, jump on me, you bang on me, beat on me, hit on me, let go on me.

    Stipe always did have a very ambivalent view of women - you can hear it throughout the album on Bang & Blame, Tongue ('I want to tell you how much I hate this') and I Don't Sleep, I Dream ('You come into my little scene, hip hip hooray). Monster is such a brooding, erotic record but at times almost malevolent. The tenderest moment is his plea to Kurt Cobain, 'Let Me In.' It's no surprise that Stipe eventually chose men - I often wished I was more like him, not merely bi-curious, but bisexual. It's R.E.M.s most underrated album and is best enjoyed with a bottle of fine wine while you look back through your own lens on the mess that is modern heterosexual relationships.

  57. H.... ....

    25th anniversary of the release of the Monster album in September 2019

  58. T.... g....

    Straight 🔥🔥🔥

  59. A.... K....

    There are so many reasons why i love REM. This song is one of those reasons.

  60. T.... M....

    I just found out this song isn’t on their greatest hits and I don’t understand that at all.

  61. A.... G....

    This song makes me feel equally nostalgic and deeply sad. It's fucking beautiful. 💜

  62. V.... D....

    TOP REM🤗

  63. L.... H....

    Está canción me gusta mucho, es de mis rolas de toda la vida, me trae gratos recuerdos.

  64. h.... ....

    this should one of those overplayed songs that i totally hated

  65. B.... R....

    Michael Stipe is a God <3

  66. p.... a....

    Lo escuchó desde 1997 y me sigue gustando 2019.
    Colombia

  67. t.... ....

    When you're looking for fault, It's not hard to find.

  68. T.... ....

    Por Grandes Super Bandas comó R.E.M. y por canciones comó está es que yo detestó a los Reggaetoneros y su porqueria que no se puede llamar Música.

  69. m.... s....

    R.I.P to the dog. Sweet lookin' thing. R.I.P. to R E M!

  70. S.... K....

    Toll, i sit in a corner.

  71. D.... S....

    I love this song so much. It's oddly not been included on any greatest hits compilations, and it was a hit.

  72. K.... P....

    was 21 yo..sweet memories

  73. M.... J....

    Love, love, love this song. Takes me back to Ann Arbor, Michigan 1994-95. Got this CD the day it was released!

  74. S.... G....

    Love love love this song..

  75. C.... H....

    This song makes me think of the guy I had an on-off, mostly one-sided romance with for 25 years. He was always making excuses for his behavior, and my self-esteem was so bad that it took me that long to well and truly break his hold on me. If they say you're the only one but they're making excuses why they were with another one, you ain't the only one.

  76. A.... S....

    My fave song even up to now...2019..

  77. k.... ....

    Album came out when I was a frosh in HS. I’d get home from school to hear “What’s the frequency Kenneth” on MTV. I would blare the fuck out of it on my parents console TV. Damn, the nineties, they are missed.

  78. J.... H....

    Pure bliss guitar riffs ,enough said

  79. R.... E....

    I got your number,so dose every kiss and tell...

  80. G.... A....

    Best REM song.

  81. C.... L....

    This never gets old...
    And he never stops.
    #youbangonme
    #yourindiscreetdiscretions

  82. w.... f....

    melhor banda de todos os tempos e quase não é reconhecida pelo nome R.E.M 😎👍

  83. D.... T....

    Easily one of tho most thrilling middle 8s in Rock history!

  84. J.... O....

    MAGA Trump 2020!

  85. K.... S....

    💕 💕 💕

  86. B.... G....

    R.E.M.Tornate a cantare vi prego!!!!!!

  87. T.... G....

    One of the best song REM.

  88. J.... K....

    Sing Losing my Religion to this song. It works!

  89. K.... R....

    White stripes, I believe, used this same guitar tone on most of their songs.

  90. R.... H....

    Love the 90s

  91. S.... G....

    TRUMP 2020!!!

  92. A.... H....

    It’s not my fault, you used to be in so in control you’re going to roll right over this one❤️

  93. S.... ....

    Awesome band!

  94. M.... ....

    2019 & Still listening to 🎧😊

    M.... ....

    2019 and beyond.. Remember we have kids their legancy will live forever!!!

  95. H.... ....

    2019 like

  96. B.... s....

    Jo, Best of music

  97. J.... H....

    The scat lyrics better the background pauses at crunch guitar riffs and percussion...good song

  98. C.... ....

    2019 and still love this.