Grammer, Andy - Wish You Pain Lyrics






I hope your doubts come like monsters
And terrorize your dreams
I hope you feel the lonely hopelessness
'Cause no one else believes
I hope you question whether you ever really had a chance at all

I hope your fear is thick like poison
It gets into your blood
I hope you push until you cannot breathe
And it's still not enough
I hope you put your life out on the line and everybody watches while you fall

'Cause I love you more than you could know
And your heart, it grows every time it breaks
I know that it might sound strange

But I wish you pain
Wish you pain
It's hard to say
But I wish you pain

I hope people break their promises
Leave you in the cold
I hope they beat your heart to pieces
Worse than you've ever known
I hope you finally arrive, only to find you're nowhere close

I hope you cry and tears come streaming down your face
I hope this life traps you in more than you thought you could ever take
I hope the help you want never comes and you do it on your own

'Cause I love you more than you could know
And your heart, it grows every time it breaks
I know that it might sound strange

But I wish you pain
Wish you pain
It's hard to say
But I wish you pain

I love you more than you could even know
Been here before and I just wanna see you grow
Want you to grow

'Cause everything that matters most
That's where it goes by a different name
I know that it might sound strange

But I wish you pain
I wish you pain
It's hard to say
Wish you pain

I love you more than you could even know
I've been here before and I just wanna see you grow
Want you to grow





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  1. B.... v....

    I really needed this life has been really hard lately...thank you and I wish you pain

  2. K.... B....

    life has its wall and sometimes we need to knock them over to keep going


    Take care, happy holidays

  3. _.... T....

    Listening to this at exactly 11:59
    I more minute and im a day closer to death. But ill push through the pain and live a nice life

  4. _.... T....

    Lets all give Andy Grammer a round of applause for his wonderful music
    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    _.... T....

    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  5. H.... ....

    Live another day your music express my life 🤗

  6. S.... C....

    I will happily, sent it all back towards someone, 10 fold. Meanwhile, i will heal others pain, with my light.

  7. S.... m....

    I completely get this song and for my Ex if you happen to see this some day i want you to know that nothing ever would of came from this last time but a lesson until you made it our fate so blame yourself because it was you and you alone that triggered everyone else's responses to your behaviors and maybe you need this kind of pain so that you can empathize with the pain you inflicted upon others. Goodluck and remember embrace that pain because it's that pain that ruined us but will hopefully save you.

  8. M.... S....

    Wtf is this song... The character singing this is a sociopath... wtf... holy s%#& how could you think that's a good message. I hope you get crushed under pain cuz "you grow from pain"... physical too was in this... wtf is this song, that is si effing messed up...

    M.... S....

    That much pain is what f^%king KILLS people

  9. F.... N....

    hating on me for my own good?
    Just... GENIUS.

  10. R.... S....

    Cause everything that matters most I'll swear it goes by a different name 💟

  11. A.... B....

    My friend that is more intelligent than I puppet ear mold castor

  12. A.... B....

    Nope I have no question at I'm just ready to see where the bones lie you do know I know how it works each round and round it's pretty much the same I know the ending and all of you already know most of the answers it doesn't matter how it gets changed anymore

  13. R.... S....

    I hate this song so much, I wouldn't wish a sliver of this pain on the devil

  14. I.... R....

    And I thought Everest was humming along with this song. ;)

  15. D.... E....

    🎵I love you more then you could even know...🎵

  16. b.... ....

    To my self-absorbed narcissistic former fiancée....I don’t ever want you back, but I hope something or someone breaks you to the point of redemption. Even then & despite lingering feelings, I must remain no contact. There must be consequences for the acts of pure evil you have committed, but God and I will forgive if there is genuine sincere repentance

  17. S.... W....

    I didn't know what this song was about the first time I heard it, and I was like "The fuck is this?" And then I read what it was about, and I have to say... this is the song of my soul 🎶🎶

  18. W.... ....

    I love you more than you could know...

    W.... ....

    I been here and...

  19. K.... B....

    it's been 2 months since my SO and I broke up... She was and still is my first love... but why oh why can't I get her out of my head... why does she still mean the whole world to me... I convinced myself that I could not live without her and I was right... I've hit my all time low and I need her...why do I still care for her.... why can't I move on.. They say she was using me for the attention I gave her but I liked it, yeah maybe I wanted some back to but i was happy without it.... I became addicted to her... she gave me hope and a reason to keep pushing... now I've lost all motivation and I'm failing most of my classes. So you know this isnt some middle school drama, no it may have started in middle school (8th grade) but went through high school (I'm in 10th now).... I want her back

  20. A.... S....

    For all the stuff I went threw, it does help you grow but also teaches you not to trust, and leaves you truly questioning if you wanna live. I wish mild pain, not all that. Like some of the stuff we all need to grow, but all that no that sends people down bad paths.

  21. I.... F....

    You dont wish someone you love pain.You hope for their innocence remaining and help protect that so they can remain unscathed by the ugly world

  22. l.... ....

    This is so epic it belongs in a Disney movie

  23. d.... p....

    how many of you after heartbroken???😊😊

  24. R.... H....

    I can't help but cry listening to this song
    It's just to important to hear this and believe that getting hurt is helping in someway even if it hurts like hell

  25. J.... F....

    This is my song, the one you keep hidden to yourself, and dont let anyone know about. That you always come back to when life is hurting. It helps to be reminded that we need pain, even though it hurts.

  26. A.... M....

    Definitely about addiction in my mind

  27. K.... R....

    People who don't listen to the words: Oh my gosh, this song is terrible!!! Why are you listening to this?!


    People who really listen to it: No, it's great. Listen closer.

  28. K.... C....

    I heard it on the radio and it had me for a minute 😅

  29. a.... r....

    does any1 else think that maybe Andy sang this a couple times crying and this is like the only one he didnt cry in?

  30. M.... A....

    The meaning of this song is different to everyone depending on your situation, it doesn’t make you bad to wish them pain. You just want them to feel the way you did.

    M.... A....

    Mo Ali no he’s not wanting retaliation he wants everyone to grow and pain humbles you

    What did his 2-3 year old daughter do nothing

    M.... A....

    Alaskan Animation what I’m saying is this song means something different to me, that’s the whole point of music

  31. R.... N....

    Here 🙏🏽

  32. k.... h....

    I think of my baby niece when I hear this song

  33. C.... C....

    This song is so good but its rude at the same time bc he acting like he want the girl 2 die but its still sweet BC this is a good song i love u this song so much and the video fye 2 no cap hope u enjoy but i broke the replay button a lot of times period ❤️❤️❤️like if u agree

  34. j.... s....

    i love it

  35. C.... W....

    While ya'll crying bout your exs,


    Im crying about that their was no more m&ms in the pantry


    They had pain,


    because I ate them


    heheheheheheheheheheheeh


    :D

  36. L.... C....

    The biggest question I have is, when's it going to grow? When is it going to get better?

    L.... C....

    Lost Child I know

  37. E.... C....

    R.I.P












    My slice of pizza

  38. R.... C....

    Those who have never known Sorrow will never know Joy.

  39. V.... ....

    I was blessed with a crappy life.

  40. b.... t....

    Love this song

  41. H.... T....

    So controversial.... but i understand it..... i love it!

  42. J.... A....

    So true!!!!

  43. H.... ....

    honestly this is the only thing that's motivated me to grow from my pain and become happy again after years of depression over losing 'the one' and being blindsidedly betrayed for the first time in my life

  44. K.... C....

    The comments are at 666 I’m ruining that

  45. K.... S....

    connor, if you ever read this know i still love u but you need to understand i didnt deserve what you gave me.

  46. S.... M....

    Andy Grammar knows how to craft songs with such terrible truth, it hurts...

  47. J.... ....

    no thanks

  48. B.... ....

    I think this is the only way i want to get motivated, by saying Facts and not *Lies* like "everything is alright and youl be happy someday"

  49. K.... E....

    I had tears streaming down because I went through all that and he's right that it makes your heart grow but it's hard to remember it all.🙏🏽💗

  50. C.... R....

    i understand the song but fuck that , i want it all without the pain. and i want the same for everyone !

  51. T.... M....

    I Am Pretty Sure my Ex-Husband Feels this about this Same Me. Neither one of us were Perfect. Sadly I Think we Are Still in love, but with other People. 😢

    T.... M....

    I Wish Immediate Divorce, or. Annulment. I want to Bash His GF Face in so she loses the rest of her teeth. Sorry just bitter. I would Never do that. But the Thought and Fantasy Is Nice. She is a Disgusting POS. Fucked up Methhead. Lost teeth on Top. He Cheated on me with a Real Winner!!!!

    T.... M....

    He is probably on Meth Now Too. Not a part of his Character. But it Happens.

    T.... M....

    @Therese Middleton its a difficult situation to be in, i know. Sometimes people feel bad about themselves and for whatever reason, aren't able to step up their own game, and find it easier to associate with a lesser, or more damaged, class of people to raise their own status by nothing more than association which 'appears' elevate them, but it doesn't really. Its just a last ditch effort to feel better without having to (BE) better, and mask the pain behind the facade. It works... for a minute.

    T.... M....

    @Brian Feeling a little Better. But Just hearing this at First Really Made me Upset and Even More Bitter. Now I am Just trying to forget. I think what Upsets me the Most is How His Family Just Hates Me. My Mom Didn't Go through this With my Family which were her In-laws. They always Stayed so close to my Mom. My In-laws just Disowned me after 13 Years. I think That is one of the things that hurt the what Most. I was very Close to Them. Or at least I thought I was. Now they just seem so Fake Now. Another reason to Feel sad.

    T.... M....

    And I Forgot to add in that My Mom and Dad are Divorced. But My Grandparents and Aunt they were always Close to my Mom after that. I don't have that. But Then again, my Family were Born Again Christian. My Ex-laws are Not. I think that has a lot to do with it. They are Catholic and Don't Understand Forgiveness. Sorry if it Offends. I was Baptized Catholic, but I love the Born Again Experience. I Have Been Baptized Both in my Life. I see the Difference. My Catholic Ex In-laws, and Sister in law are hypocrites.

  52. T.... M....

    My EX Husband. I Still Love Him.

  53. M.... B....

    This song reminds me of my dad.
    He was a alcoholic...its hard to forgive him.
    If you've ever had someone who is kinda like that...I hope you know that it'll be ok.

  54. F.... R....

    My teacher played this during class and im obsessed with it now lmao

  55. A.... L....

    Eh, I've had enough pain. Anymore just makes me lost and depressed. If you made the song a bit more empowering, it'd work, but this just makes me feel like I should just fade away

  56. M.... B....

    darn it i thought this would be a major roast

  57. A.... A....

    Same background wave music used for Illeniums “God Damnit”

  58. D.... M....

    “We can ignore even pleasure. But pain insists upon being attended to. God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our conscience, but shouts in our pains: it is his megaphone to rouse a deaf world.”C.S. Lewis

  59. T.... R....

    To me his is wanting the person to be sad or in pain so he can be there for them and comfort them

  60. 2.... E....

    I dedicate this to my ex. May you have the experiences to grow a god damn heart.

  61. S.... D....

    I dedicate this to myself. I wish you all the pain it takes to become a amazing person.
    I love you

  62. S.... S....

    Itachi to Sasuke?

  63. d.... h....

    Thanks !!

  64. R.... K....

    Personally I think this song is about a motherly or fatherly love for their child. You never really want them to experience pain, but without it they won't grow and become strong and beautiful people.

  65. K.... K....

    I have someone in mind listening to this

  66. G.... B....

    Please have this be true please let all the pain and hurt not be for nothing

  67. w.... a....

    Umm.. okay.

    *stubs toe*


    I don't feel like a better person.

  68. A.... -....

    I thought he said "I wish you payed" and thought this was some song about sexism and how the girl should pay too until I saw this lyric video

  69. L.... G....

    my heart has just been beat to pieces worst than I've ever known. wasnt good enough for the guy I loved. got left for someone else. time to let the hurt hurt and grow from the pain.

  70. l.... ....

    Growth💚

    I love you baby girl

  71. E.... I....

    Is this guy alright?😳

  72. d.... h....

    Thankyou!

  73. R.... G....

    I pray for pain, so I thank you for your kind wishes... hahaha feel free to take a day off now and then ahhahahaa pain hurts... :)

  74. j.... o....

    By him saying YOUR HEART GROWS EVERY TIME IT BREAKS SO THE PERSON CAN GET STRONGER

  75. A.... T....

    "i love you more than you could ever know,been here before and i just wanna see you grow" these lyrics hit me on a deeper level

  76. A.... D....

    i dedicate this to my ugh u hate saying this.. ex best friend.. i loved him. i told him everything. for years and years he was there for me.. through me witnessing my 2 other best friends killing themselves infront of me.. he was here for me for that and everything else that had happened before.. i miss him. he abandoned. me and found a new girlfriend whom he left me for.. she told me to kill myself.. his brother told me the same thing.. he blamed his cousin for blocking me then he said he has to keep me hidden from his gf. i dm her i was pissed.. she told him bullshit.. he hates me niw and he blcoked me from his life.. i almost listened to his girlfriend which u was stupid and ended up putting myself in a hospitial. it truley is hard to say.. chris its hard to say but i wish you pain. I wish you could understand the fucking pain you put me through! i wish you could feel my pain!! i loved you.. i gave you everything i could. you really did help me and keep me alive through all the shit i have been through. you never fully ubderstood what i went through but you really did help me you have no idea. I cant forget you. no matter how hard i fucking try. you will be in my heart ans on my mind forever.. i hate this but goodbye chris...

  77. N.... M....

    i've grown so much i hit the ceiling so do you want me to grow to break my neck

  78. M.... D....

    why would you wanna wish someone pain.
    like if you wouldn't wish someone pain


    Edit: You know what idk why I try to get likes.

    M.... D....

    i like how this has no likes.

    M.... D....

    Stop fishing for likes

    M.... D....

    Ferb Fletcher I was just seeing if people would want to wish someone pain so since you didn't like it that means you would wish someone pain jk

    M.... D....

    Mega Donkey

    I'm starting to think you're not supposed to be on YouTube

  79. S.... O....

    This song is basically about growth and people are basing it on people who they want to suffer in a bad way. Not even in a good way..some of you aren't getting the point of the song lol

  80. K.... B....

    I was soo confused when I heard the beginning
    😂😂

  81. K.... J....

    pain is superb is some sort of manner. i want you to realise just how much damage you have done to me internally and i want you to know i never meant for you to get away. i always meant for you to stay with me until i was no longer, all with your beautiful voice.

  82. l.... ....

    How I took the song is if you never experience the bad you'll never appreciate the good.

  83. j.... c....

    You are my favorite singer in the world I am going to see your concert this month please reply

  84. K.... O....

    I swear my ex crush liked this you know who you are Josh

  85. J.... L....

    NO PAIN NO GAIN 💪 ❤

  86. C.... M....

    All of you are wrong. It's about his kids. Not a love interest or pursuing your passions.

  87. m.... ....

    this song is perfect for the lazy
    ultra sensitive society
    we live in today!

  88. I.... K....

    Mind blown thnx for the song.....really good song for me

  89. E.... M....

    I agree with all of this except the chorus as I don’t love them I hate them x

  90. S.... Z....

    Why should I? You’ve been doing it 1000 times more then I do long ago. Even with the feeling of you loving me over other bodies.

  91. E.... M....

    And your heart, it grows every time it breaks 💔💗

    E.... M....

    It's very true

    E.... M....

    Ethereal Music i know that it might sound strange..

    E.... M....

    Not sure what this line means

    E.... M....

    So cute

    E.... M....

    @Daniel Nunez Means every time you get hurt you learn. Sometimes you have to feel the painful consequences before you can be the best person you can be.